Forget satire, songs, and being silly. Let's get serious ... if just for day.
Today is Single Parents Day and I honestly don’t know where
to begin – it would take volumes. That said, I suppose having the baby’s a good
place to start. My life changed forever and became perfect all at once the
moment she was born. I was in baby love with the most incredible being. Her innocent
little eyes looked up to me for everything … how could I (or anyone) not want
to give her the world? Those that know us know the answer.
Words can’t describe playing the role of both mom and dad. I
often felt isolated and unsure of exactly where I fit in. Though definitely
challenged on some levels, I was blessed with a child who somehow understood we
were in this together. It wasn’t about social norms, expectations, or stuff –
it was about love. It was about US.
There was no other option but to prevail. Sometimes the gray
area was blinding, yet here we are. We actually made it -- quite swimmingly, I must add. I jumped in, followed my gut, and did my
best. (It also helped that she was quite an amazing co-pilot.) People act on
instincts … and seeing her now proves mine were pretty damn good.
It’s been a long, short, wonderful, frightening, beautiful,
trying, ever-rewarding journey. Miraculously I weathered the emotional
rollercoaster to raise a brilliant, successful young woman. The word “proud”
doesn’t quite cut it. (Let me throw in “Class Valedictorian” just once more.
Please. Oh, and did I mention brilliant?)
Bottom line, I’d relive every single second to be exactly who and where we are today. Because of her words I understand the meaning of true
wealth. Because of her fierceness I’ve come to realize my own strength. Because
of her love I believe in angels, as she is truly mine. I am so lucky to have
lived this life. Thank you my darling. I love you … infinity squared.
Celebrate Single Parent Appreciation Day and send lots of love to all the moms and dads raising
children alone … they truly have the hardest job in existence. Hopefully, like
mine, it’s been the most gratifying. xo
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